Types Of Sex Women Enjoy

You seem to be noticing a pattern with your last couple of girlfriends: during the first few months, you can barely keep your hands off each other, and slowly but surely, the sexual frequency drops so much below the freezing point that you end up right back where you started: out with the guys, desperate to score.

but you want one

The thing is, you kinda like having a girlfriend. So how can you keep the dreaded bedroom boredom from setting in with your current lady? You must never let the sex become routine. It's easier than you think; you just have to add different styles of lovemaking to your repertoire, and have a woman who's willing to go the distance. 

So what are these different styles and when are they appropriate? From romantic to animalistic, read on and find out how to keep the flame burning for good.

Type 1 - Seductive Sex

Chances are that your first few sexual encounters with your woman will revolve around seduction. In other words, you're going to do your damndest to charm her right into your bed.

Look deep into her eyes and "sensualize" the conversation in order to seduce her mind and get the sexual energy between you flowing.

Once you have her eating out of the palm of your hand, take her in your arms and kiss her. Lead her into the bedroom and slowly undress her. Lay her down and make love to her while keeping eye contact. Maintain a constant, steady pace and refrain from using too many sound effects. After all, you're the strong, silent type tonight.

This type of set-up is also good for when you've been together for a while and want to feel like the stud that you are, and want to remind her of that too.

Type 2 - Romantic Sex

This type of sex is good for when you're both relaxed and not pressed for time, such as during a weekend getaway. It's time to enjoy the fact that neither of you has anything to do but enjoy each other's bodies. 

Here's your chance to give her what she wants: a romantic setting and seemingly endless foreplay. Light candles, put on some sexy music (it's subjective), open up a bottle of Merlot, and caress all of her erogenous zones, including her thighs, butt, back, neck, soles of her feet, and breasts.

The ensuing sex should be slow and rhythmic, and allow both parties to enjoy every sensation to its fullest. Basically, it should feel like it's going in slow motion

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Type 3 - Animalistic SexOther times, you are just so hot for each other that prolonging foreplay just seems like agony, like when you're at a club and get incredibly turned on, but have to wait until you get home. Once you unlock that front door, it's time for animalistic sex.

Grab her and kiss her hard, and rip each other's clothes off; it doesn't even matter if some of them stay on. Go ahead and do it doggy style on the living room floor, or prop her up on the kitchen counter if you so desire. Do it fast and hard. Grab her hair by the roots, yell if you feel like it; just be sure to check your inhibitions at the door.

Type 4 - Passionate SexPerhaps you were away on business and haven't seen her for a week, or maybe you had a huge fight and need to make up; the point is you're burning with desire and you want to devour each other. 

The resulting sex should be intense and deeply felt. Hold on to her body and make love to her like she's all the woman you could ever want or need.

Type 5 - Quickie SexThis one's great if you're pressed for time, stressed out, or in an unusual location that you really shouldn't be having sex in, such as in your office, or on a somewhat secluded beach.

This one's quick and to the point; you want an orgasm and you want it now.

Type 6 - Kinky SexIf you and your woman have been together for a while and trust each other, and are looking to spice things up, it may just be time to get kinky. 

Get out the scarves and tie her hands behind her head or to the bedpost, and make her your slave. Or blindfold her and keep her guessing what you'll do next. Get your hands on some edible body paints and make her body your canvas. Tease her with a feather. Or shock her system with ice cubes or candle wax. Spank her.

You can also get her to wear some sexy lingerie and do a little strip tease for you. She can be your naughty school girl, cowgirl, French maid; whatever turns you on.

keep it coming

As long as you and your woman have compatible sex drives and a sense of adventure when it comes to your sexual escapades, you should be able to lead a mutually fulfilling sex life and prevent the flame from dying. Just remember to switch it up and spice it up.


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How to use Male Condom?

WHAT ARE CONDOMS?

A condom is a tube made of thin, flexible material. It is closed at one end. Condoms have been used for hundreds of years to prevent pregnancy by keeping a man’s semen out of a woman’s vagina. Condoms also help prevent diseases that are spread by semen or by contact with infected sores in the genital area, including HIV. Most condoms go over a man’s penis. A new type of condom was designed to fit into a woman’s vagina. This “female” condom can also be used to protect the rectum.

WHAT ARE THEY MADE OF?

Condoms used to be made of natural skin (including lambskin) or of rubber. That’s why they are called “rubbers.” Most condoms today are latex or polyurethane. Lambskin condoms can prevent pregnancy. However, they have tiny holes (pores) that are large enough for HIV to get through. Lambskin condoms do not prevent the spread of HIV.

Latex is the most common material for condoms. Viruses cannot get through it. Latex is inexpensive and available in many styles. It has two drawbacks: oils make it fall apart, and some people are allergic to it.

HOW ARE CONDOMS USED?

Condoms can protect you during contact between the penis, mouth, vagina, or rectum. Condoms won’t protect you from HIV or other infections unless you use them correctly.

• Store condoms away from too much heat, cold, or friction. Do not keep them in a wallet or a car glove compartment.
• Check the expiration date. Don’t use outdated condoms.
• Don’t open a condom package with your teeth. Be careful that your fingernails or jewelry don’t tear the condom. Body jewelry in or around your penis or vagina might also tear a condom.

• Use a new condom every time you have sex, or when the penis moves from the rectum to the vagina.
• Check the condom during sex, especially if it feels strange, to make sure it is still in place and unbroken.
• Do not use a male condom and a female condom at the same time.
• Use only water-based lubricants with latex condoms, not oil-based. The oils in Crisco, butter, baby oil, Vaseline or cold cream will make latex fall apart.

• Use unlubricated condoms for oral sex (most lubricants taste awful).
• Do not throw condoms into a toilet. They can clog plumbing.

Polyurethane is an option for people who are allergic to latex. One brand of female condom and one brand of male condom are made of polyurethane.

Instruction for use

• Use Latex Condoms
• Check the expiry date
• Heat and friction can damage condoms.
• Open the condom package carefully to avoid tearing.
• Put the condom on the penis before any genital contacts.
• A drop of lubricant inside the tip of the condom will improve sensation.
• Pinch the air from the tip of the condom to leave space for the semen/sperm. Air left in the condom tip will cause it to burst.
• Unroll the condom right down to the base of the erect penis.
• Avoid Vaseline and Oil based products as they may cause the condom to break.
• After Cumming, pull out the penis while it is still hard, firmly holding the base of the condom.
• Remove the condom, being careful not to spill semen/sperm.
• Throw it in the garbage, not the toilet.
• Use condom only once.

Reasons to use Condoms

1. Condoms are the only contraceptive that help prevent both pregnancy and the spread of sexually transmitted diseases (including HIV) when used properly and consistently.

2. Condoms are one of the most reliable methods of birth control when use properly and consistently.

3. Condoms have none of the medical side-effects of some other birth control methods may have.

4. Condoms are available in various shapes, colours, flavours, textures and sizes - to increase the fun of making love with condoms.

5. Condoms are widely available in pharmacies, supermarkets and convenience stores. You don't need a prescription or have to visit a doctor.

6. Condoms make sex less messy.

7. Condoms are user friendly. With a little practice, they can also add confidence to the enjoyment of sex.

8. Condoms are only needed when you are having sex unlike some other contraceptives which require you to take or have them all of the time.

CONDOM MYTHS

Condoms don’t work: Studies show condoms are 80% to 97% effective in preventing HIV transmission if they are used correctly every time you have sex.

Condoms break a lot: Less than 2% of condoms break when they are used correctly: no oils with latex condoms, no double condoms, no outdated condoms.

HIV can get through condoms: HIV cannot get through latex or polyurethane condoms. Don’t use lambskin condoms

THE BOTTOM LINE

When used correctly, condoms are the best way to prevent the spread of HIV during sexual activity. Condoms can protect the mouth, vagina or rectum from HIV-infected semen. They can protect the penis from HIV-infected vaginal fluids and blood in the mouth, vagina, or rectum. They also reduce the risk of spreading other sexually transmitted diseases.

Condoms must be stored, used and disposed of correctly. Male condoms are used on the penis. Female condoms can be used in the vagina or rectum.
For more information, see Condomania’s World of Safer Sex at http://www.condomania.com/ or the FDA’s condom brochure at http://www.fda.gov/oashi/aids/condom.html

Guide to Female Condom

What is the female condom?

The female condom is a thin sheath or pouch worn by a woman during sex. It entirely lines the vagina and helps to prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) including HIV.

What female condoms are available?

The FC and FC2 female condoms

A video showing how to use the FC female condom

The FC2 female condom is a nitrile sheath or pouch 17cm (6.5 inches) in length. At each end there is a flexible ring. At the closed end of the sheath, the flexible ring is inserted into the vagina to hold the female condom in place. The other end of the sheath stays outside the vulva at the entrance to the vagina. This ring acts as a guide during penetration and it also stops the sheath from moving up inside the vagina.

There is a silicone-based lubricant on the inside of the condom, but additional lubrication can be used. The condom does not contain spermicide.

The original version of the FC female condom (brand names included Reality, Femy and Femidom), was made of polyurethane. As this was a relatively expensive material to use, the makers of the FC female condom released the FC2 version, using the cheaper nitrile material. Large-scale production of the FC2 began in 2007. Production of the original FC condom has now stopped.

The FC2 female condom received FDA approval in March 2009.¹

Other types of female condom

The VA w.o.w Condom Feminine (or VA for short) is made of latex. At around 9cm (3.5 inches) it is shorter than the FC2. It has a rounded triangular frame at the open end and a sponge inside the closed end, which helps to anchor it inside the vagina. The VA is lubricated and does not contain spermicide. Oil-based lubricants should not be used with this female condom as they can damage latex.

The VA has received the CE mark for distribution in the European Union, but has not received FDA approval. The World Health Organization is due to review the product following the results from a 2011 clinical trial.²

Other female condoms include Cupid female condom (produced and distributed in India) and the Phonenurse female condom (produced and distributed in China).

How do you use the female condom?

Open the package carefully. Choose a position that is comfortable for insertion - squat, raise one leg, sit or lie down. Make sure the condom is lubricated enough.

If you are using the FC2 female condom, make sure the inner ring is at the closed end of the sheath, and hold the sheath with the open end hanging down. Squeeze the inner ring with thumb and middle finger (so it becomes long and narrow), and then insert the inner ring and sheath into the vaginal opening. Gently insert the inner ring into the vagina and feel it go up. Place the index finger inside the condom and push the inner ring as far as it will go. Make sure the condom is inserted straight, and is not twisted inside the vagina. The outer ring should remain on the outside of the vagina.

A VA w.o.w Condom Feminine

To begin inserting the VA, hold the sponge and frame close together and place the closed end in front of the vagina. Use two fingers to push the closed end containing the sponge inside the vagina as far as it will go. Make sure the sponge is opened up flat once it has been inserted. The frame should remain on the outside of the vagina.

The penis should be guided into the female condom in order to ensure that it does not slip into the vagina outside the condom. Use enough lubricant so that the condom stays in place during sex. The female condom should not be used at the same time as a male condom because the friction between the two condoms may cause the condoms to break.

If the condom slips during intercourse, or if it enters the vagina, then you should stop immediately and take the female condom out. Then insert a new one and add extra lubricant to the opening of the sheath or on the penis.

To remove the condom, twist the outer ring or frame gently and then pull the condom out keeping the sperm inside. Wrap the condom in the package or in tissue and throw it away. Do not put it into the toilet. It is generally recommended that the female condom should not be reused.

The female condom may feel unfamiliar and may be difficult to insert at first. Some women find that with time and practice using the female condom becomes easier.

What are the benefits?

• It provides an opportunity for women to share the responsibility for condoms with their partners.
• A woman may be able to use the female condom if her partner refuses to use a male condom.
• The female condom will protect against most STDs and pregnancy if used correctly.
• The FC2 female condom can be inserted in advance of sexual intercourse so as not to interfere with the moment.
• The FC2 female condom is made of nitrile, which can be used with oil-based as well as water-based lubricants. No special storage requirements are needed because nitrile is not affected by changes in temperature and dampness. In addition, nitrile conducts heat well, so sensation is preserved.

What are the disadvantages?

An FC female condom

• The outer ring or frame is visible outside the vagina, which can make some women feel self-conscious.
• The FC2 female condom can make noises during intercourse (adding more lubricant can lessen this problem).
• Some women find the female condom hard to insert and remove.
• It has a higher failure rate in preventing pregnancy than non-barrier methods such as the pill.
• In some countries it can be relatively expensive and limited in availability.

Can I reuse the female condom?

The World Health Organisation (WHO) recommends use of a new male or female condom for every act of intercourse for those people who use condoms for pregnancy prevention and/or STD/HIV prevention. The FDA state that the FC2 and FC are designed and intended to be used only once.³

WHO does not recommend or promote reuse of female condoms but has released guidelines and advice for programme managers who may consider reuse of FC female condoms in local settings.⁴

Using the female condom for anal sex

Some people use the female condom for anal sex, although it has not been officially approved or recommended for this use. More research is needed to determine whether the female condom is effective at preventing STD and HIV transmission during anal sex.

Support for the female condom

WHO and UNAIDS are encouraging wider access to the female condom as a method of preventing both pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. Many governments and non-governmental organisations provide female condoms for free or at subsidised prices as part of their HIV prevention and family planning programmes.

Worldwide use and availability

Vending machines for both male and female condoms in France

The availability and distribution of female condoms has increased significantly in the past few years. In 2009 around 26 million female condoms were provided through international and nongovernmental funding sources, compared to 10.7 million in 2006.⁵ However, the global distribution of female condoms is still far less than that of male condoms.⁶

The FC2 female condom is distributed by donor groups and public health organisations in around 100 countries across the world.⁷ It is directly marketed to the United States and is sold through distribution agreements to countries such as Canada, Mexico, Spain, India and Brazil. In fiscal year 2009, the makers of the FC2 female condom sold 40.2 million units worldwide, up from 34.7 million in 2008.⁸ Many of these condoms were purchased by donor agencies such as USAID and UNFPA.

Future of the female condom

A number of new female condoms, such as PATH's Woman's Condom,⁹ are currently being developed. The aim of these is to address the common disadvantages of current female condoms on the market. However, these female condoms are still a long way from becoming widely available and their future prospects are uncertain.

With women and girls accounting for just over half of all people living with HIV worldwide, female HIV prevention initiatives are still desperately needed. The female condom is the only female-initiated HIV prevention method presently available and it has the potential to empower women to protect themselves from the risk of HIV infection.

However, wider use of the female condom in countries with severe HIV/AIDS epidemics depends on the commitment of governments and other major donors. To achieve its full potential, much greater effort needs to be made worldwide to make the female condom more affordable, accessible and acceptable.

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Sex and the American Man: A Preview

Gentlemen, a show of hands: Who's having enough sex these days? We commissioned a nationwide survey to find out when (and where and why) American men are having sex right now, and the results reveal the expectations, frustrations, proclivities, perversions, and fantasies that define how we're doing it. Let's get started, shall we?

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• Married men are 25% more likely to say they're very satisfied with their sex lives over their single peers...

• 14% of married men have had at least one sexual encounter with another man

• 34% of men in committed relationships have cheated on their current partner...

• 10% of men don't believe oral sex counts as "sex"

• Only 34% of men regularly wear a condom...

• 43% of men have haddifficulty getting and/or maintaining an erection...

• Only 24% of men prefer their partners to have large breasts

• 22% of men said they have had 20 or more sex partners in their lifetime...

• When asked what their biggest anxiety is when having sex with someone for the first time, men are more than four times as likely to say they areconcerned with their sexual performancethan with contracting HIV

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What is Sex, Exactly?

5 Different Kinds of Sex Defined

Think "sex" only means one thing? Think again! The word "sex" encompasses a lot of different types of sexual activities. The definitions of the main ones are below, along with how risky they are. If you want to learn more, follow the really useful links under each heading.

1. Vaginal Sex

Vaginal sex is what most people think of as "sex" - specifically, when a man's penis enters a woman's vagina. It's the only form of sex that can lead to pregnancy, and it can spread sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), too.

• Facts About Vaginal Sex
• Your Most Embarrassing Sex Questions Answered
• Safe Sex 101
• 10 Signs That You're Ready for Sex
• 20 Facts About Your First Time

2. Oral Sex

Oral sex is any kind of sex that involves contact between mouth and genitals. Oral sex can't get you pregnant, but it can spread the same STDs that vaginal sex can - which means that if you want to do it safely, you must use a condom or dental dam.

• All About Oral Sex
• How to Perform Safer Oral Sex
• Can You Get an STD From Oral Sex?
• Does Oral Sex Count as Sex?

3. Anal Sex

Anal sex is any type of sex that involves pentrating someone's anus. It carries the same risks of disease as vaginal sex and oral sex.

• What's the Deal With Anal Sex?
• Does Anal Sex Hurt?
• Do All Gay Guys Have Anal Sex?
• 5 Myths About Anal Sex

4. Masturbation

Masturbation means touching yourself in order to feel sexual pleasure. Since you're doing it by yourself, there's no risk of pregnancy or STD - making masturbation the safest form of sex there is.

• Answers to Your Questions About Masturbation
• 10 Things to Know About Masturbation
• Masturbation Facts & Myths

5. Mutual Masturbation

Mutual masturbation means masturbating in front of a partner. Since there's no genital contact between you and the other person, it's a safe form of sex that can't spread STDs or lead to pregnancy.

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Safe Sex Info

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Quizzes About Sex

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